Iyer Veetu Kalyanam means 3 days full of samayal Virunthu and full of relatives filled with house or Mandapam. Normally nowadays Iyer Wedding happens in Kalyana Mandapam only with all the marriage arrangements done in advance with the marriage contractor. If you remember the last marriage you attended, our Tamil Iyer Brahmin wedding rituals are great traditional and filled with all the traditional way to do things.
The Vadthiyar mama in Tamil Brahmin wedding checklist is one of the biggest list, starting from the entry of Ponnu and Mapillai till the 3rd day. After Corona, many people have made it even shorter, after marriage Muhurtam, food is served and say tata bye bye to all and vacate the Mandapam.
The Traditional Iyer wedding events from day 1 to day 3 are many, Nichiyathartam, till the Kattusadam given to Mapillai. In every Iyer Marriage function you can see Mami wear Madisar saree and Mama wear Panchagacham, specially the Palum Pazhamum saree is the best combination as that looks so bright, but in our Iyer Wedding Saree is Kurai Pudvai only. We Tamil Brahmin follow almost all the rituals and the marriage function.